Pam Kragt has attended a Memorial Day service at a veterans cemetery in the Midwest every year for as long as she can remember.
This year, she will tune into the ceremony at the ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Marana, where her mother, Clara Van Gelder, was buried almost seven months ago.
Like many events in the last few months, the Memorial Day ceremony will be virtual on Monday morning.
The annual event usually draws hundreds of visitors to the cemetery in Marana, said Nicole Baker, spokeswoman for the ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ Department of Veterans Services.
Baker said the department took into account how difficult it would be to set up chairs with enough space to follow social-distancing guidelines and how difficult it would be to prevent crowds at their largest annual event before deciding to host the event virtually.
“We wanted to make sure we were doing what was the safest for everyone, everyone attending and for our staff as well,†Baker said.
People can also leave comments while the ceremony streams, adding some sense of community to the ceremony this year, Baker said.
Kragt, who lives in a suburb of Omaha, Nebraska, said it felt good to learn she could still watch a Memorial Day ceremony from her living room this year. She is also glad to see the department in ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ is taking good care of her mother, she said.
Kragt’s father, Wilbert Van Gelder, was in the Army in the early 1950s and served in the front lines of the Korean War. Her parents were married almost 68 years.
She said the wives of veterans also sacrifice a lot when their spouses join the military.
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“The women who are buried at Marana were part of those servicemen’s lives. They should also be shown respect,†she said. “Some of them raised children alone. Some of them spent a great deal of time while their spouses were abroad wondering, praying and hoping that they’d come back.â€
The Van Gelders were lifelong farmers in Iowa and moved to the ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ area about 10 years ago, where Kragt’s brother, Bob Van Gelder, lives.
On Monday morning, Wilbert Van Gelder, 91, will be able to watch the Memorial Day ceremony online at his son’s house, Kragt said.
Cemetery staff placed flags on the more than 1,000 gravesites last week in preparation for the ceremony, Baker said. Usually hundreds of volunteers help with flag placement.
Families were encouraged to visit the cemetery throughout the weekend and practice social distancing while they honor their loved ones for Memorial Day, Baker said.
Rosalina Day attended the Memorial Day ceremony the last two years after her husband, William O. Day, died of cancer in October 2017 and was buried at the Marana cemetery.
Thankful for ceremony
She thought the ceremony would be canceled this year because of the pandemic, she said. She was glad the department found a way to honor veterans who have died.
William O. Day joined the Air Force and served in the Vietnam war.
“It’s a beautiful thing that they honor them for having fought for this nation,†Day said.
Baker said the department is now considering offering livestreaming of the Memorial Day ceremony in the future after seeing the positive response it received from family members like Kragt who live far away but would still like to join the ceremony.
Kragt said that’s a great idea, as the days when families lived near each other are not as common anymore, she said.
“It’s nice to know that someone is caring for that spot,†Kragt said. “Both of my parents will be there, so it’s reassuring to know that they show great love and care for them as well.â€
A look at what life was like in ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ in the early 1980s
El Parador
The Roskruge Hotel
Sunrise Road construction
Contest in ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥
Cinco de Mayo
8th Annual Rodder's Day Convention
Esperanza Elementary School
Sen. Robert Byrd
Ringling Brothers clown tryouts
Larry Hagman in ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥
Children's violin concert
Installation of Bishop Moreno
Williams Center construction
El Con solar-powered car
Fred Dotson and Dave Bloom
Juneteenth Festival
IBM exhibition
63rd Baile de las Flores
ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ Police Olympics
Cheerleaders at the VA
Tootsie lookalikes
Marana Air Park
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ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ Mall prepares for launch
Reid Park Zoo
'Last Supper' move
Breakers Water Park
C-130 transfer
20th Century Rail Tours
20th Century Rail Tours
'Father Murphy' filming at Old ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥
Concrete canoe
Greyhound Park
Rillito River Regatta
Joe Garagiola
ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ McDonald's
'Revenge of the Nerds' extra casting
UA pool relaxing
Giant Sandworms
Giant Sandworms
Sheraton El Conquistador Hotel
ASU vs UA
El Tour de ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥
Wet weather
Hidden Valley Inn
Southern Pacific control room
Old ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ parking lot
Bombardier
Msgr. Arsenio Carrillo calls bingo
Chances nightclub
VA Hospital
Cooling down in Old Pueblo
Harpo's Restaurant
First day of school around ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥
University of ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ Homecoming
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ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ 5 Drive-In
Lochiel, Ariz., border crossing
Hayden smelter
H. Porter's of ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥
South ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ City Hall
Walter 'Hoegie' Simmons
Old Southern Pacific Railroad Warehouse
Miner strike
Tanque Verde Swap Meet
Tack Room boot
La Mariposa restaurant
TRS-89 computer
ÃÛèÖÖ±²¥ flooding
Floods of October, 1983
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